How to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Dr. Love, Hello! So my boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me 6 weeks ago. We just got back from studying abroad which was amazing. We went to our friends wedding and got into an argument, and he said a switch flipped in him and he realized he was no longer happy and miserable. Now that he’s gone, I want to know how to get my ex boyfriend back.

Because we bickered a lot about dumb things I started etc. I see how stupid all of the fighting was now and have been working on myself the past 6 weeks trying to be more attentive, listening and understanding. When we broke up he balled for hours saying I’m the love of his life but he just couldn’t do it anymore and was exhausted from arguing. I made him feel like he wasn’t good enough and I understand that now and have worked in changing myself and want to prove to my boyfriend I have and we can start a new healthier relationship but he will not speak to me.

After it happened I was so confused I reached out to our friends and he reached out to me 2 weeks in after saying to not put our friends in the middle because it wasn’t fair. I have been very nice to my boyfriend through this whole thing because I want to show him am listening and understanding, and my response to him was that wasn’t my intention etc.

Then a week later he answered saying he wasn’t happier without me and that it sucked, but as soon as I answered said he didn’t mean to open a can of worms, sorry i’ll stay quiet. Then I texted him twice since, one I sent a funny picture someone uploaded of us. And the next just saying I hope he enjoyed his yearly Superbowl party and I got no response to either. It’s been 2 weeks since I texted him , but I saw him at the bar last weekend and said hi in passing and he then blocked me on all social media the next day. I was depressed for the first month, but at the point I’ve worked on myself and changed what I needed to and am so happy and gungho, and ready to start with him but he won’t speak to me and seems mad still even though I’ve been nothing but sweet.

What the heck should I do? We talked about marriage and such, and even the day before it happened he has been talking about our wedding and telling me I’m the love of his life. I understand his point of view and I’m not angry, I just want to fix things and prove to him I’m done with my old habbits. What the heck do I do?
Source: AskLoveDr